Are there different types of listening?
 
 
- Yes, positive
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- Active 
- With understanding & giving positive feedback
 
- Polite 
- And not interrupting in the speaker's pauses
 
 
- Neutral
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- Passive information gathering 
- Unquestioning & generally neutral
 
- Selective 
- Hearing only what you want to hear
 
 
- Negative
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- Defensive 
- With a skeptical attitude, or simply distracted
 
- Aggressive 
- Trying to "trip up" the speaker